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I feel like I am at the end of a very short rope. I am financially, emotionally, mentally,

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The Christmas Cat   in reply to willie tosh
Thank you for the picture it said so much about your needs there.. Maybe someone else will see that and help. I have some family problems right now of my own. But I will try to help more when possible hang in there.
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willie tosh   in reply to The Christmas Cat
hi, it has been a while since i communicated. I didnt got help but, am very greatful ,I thank you for all your efforts .Atleast i moved with hopes. THANKS A LOT
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Much Love   in reply to SisterServant
Thank you, Sister Servant. Those were very kind, intelligent, thoughtful & helpful things you said. For some reason I do better when I'm writing to someone or think I am. Many times I write & get no response, so this is much appreciated. Or times it is other people that getting me going.

With so much going on though, the thing that shuts it down is the pressures of money I need now, feeling too tired or anxious to put it that doesnt take too much time & can later remember what, where & which order. And the pressure of family not getting the time it takes to write, the need to write or needing not to be distracted while I am trying to write, especially when they think I need or should be doing other things to get my bills paid.

Writing is not work to them because It isnt pulling in a paycheck, where as I dont see it as work unless I'm trying to find a paycheck in it. I have of late been trying to figure out my nichè.

Well my head is drumming lile a school band standing in place & the pain relievers are not offering relief as yet, so I bid you a wonderful evening. Thank you for the lovely compliments. I havgotten much confirmation regarding my writing skills & what I could do with them. Happily they are happy directions.
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SisterServant   in reply to Much Love
Hello Much Love,

I don't think intellect is sinful. I suspect that God might enjoy hearing our questions and the answers that we surmise (though He may not decide to let us know if our "answers" are correct or not.)

I suspect that He had the same kind of relationship with some of His prophets, so you are in good company. I don't see why you shouldn't question. I don't know to what degree you have channeled your questions into a particular direction (literary).

For those with questioning minds, the more one learns, the more one has questions. There is nothing wrong with that. I think that this is how it should be.

What I hear in your post here is a very normal sense of conflict. This is the stuff of decent literature. Is there any way for you objectify your conflicts and pondering into a character (or characters) other than yourself? This would give you some emotional relief...psychic distance.

Though you are "tired of struggling and suffering from depression, you sound very creative." Why don't you allow "your character (s) to carry the burden of suffering and depression.? You don't need to perfect the form initially, though you may want to think in a certain genre... a poem, a play, a song, a short story, a novel, etc. But you don't have to define the form in the first writing. Just let it be whatever it wants to be.

You say you can't do anything real and substantial with any of the gifts God bestowed upon you. You may feel discouraged now, but that does not mean you cannot do anything real and substantial... You have to give God more time to work with you...

It sounds as you have your own unique relationship with God and this is great! I think you should continue questioning, but with the idea of channeling those questions, conflicts, answers, etc. into some literary art.

I reread one of your posts and you indicated that your brain shuts down with regard to writing...THIS IS PROBABLY BECAUSE ONE PART OF YOUR BRAIN BEGINS TO EDIT BEFORE YOU HAVE COMPLETED THE IDEA. Try a non-stop writing exercise (say for 5 minutes or however long you decide) . Just keep going no matter what. Write whatever comes into your head even if it is "this does not make any sense, etc and this writing is not going anywhere or my brain wants to shut down right now, but I will not let it, because my time is not up."

If you have not done so already, read Anne Lamott's Traveling Mercies: Some Thoughts on Faith or Bird by Bird. Both of these should be in the local library.

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woman in a shoe   in reply to Much Love
U welcome
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Much Love   in reply to woman in a shoe
Thank you.
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woman in a shoe   in reply to Much Love
U said u had a bible start with the new testament and u will under stand it u ask about his dislikes he don't like people that kill and so on
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The Christmas Cat   in reply to Much Love
Your Welcome
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Much Love   in reply to The Christmas Cat
Wow, amazing. I clicked on one & the amount of info that came up was overwhelming. You ladies are Remarkable. Thank you!
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Much Love   in reply to woman in a shoe
Thank you. I do have a Bible. I also have a brother that is Theologic. He studied many religions & found the Eastern Orthodox Church to be the truest of all religions. This raises many more questions. My questions are mine... I throw them out there like you would pieces of a puzzle. It is natural for people to walk near a puzzle & catch where pieces go & yet if you stand over it all the pieces look the same. I have a writer's brain.... We dissect everything...

Thats how I know there is a God. That many other things. But the purpose of poverty & continuous struggling baffles me. Many things baffle me... And I think I know the answer to it but its not a One person answer. Its a Whole World Order that must take place. And sadly we are Light Years away from that understanding & possibility. So I am either too early or one of the pioneers for the movement to happen at a later date. Its lonely tho...

People think you're Godless or not of a thankful Nature. Not so. Quite the opposite. My questions about God are mine to get to know Him...This is someone I am committing to spend Eternity with, I should know everything there is too know about living with this Person of all PEOPLE. I want to know His likes & dislikes. I want to know His temperament & His moods.

I wanna know how real He is or are is He someone I made up for my own happiness. We do it daily in choosing of mates & friends. Its fair to assume we might do it with Our GOD too.
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woman in a shoe   in reply to Much Love
Do u have a bible some of the things u ask about is in the bible like u was talking about suffer is in the bible. If u got a bible let me know and I will help u understand if u don't see me on still send me message and soon as I can I will get back to u. U take care
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Much Love   in reply to SisterServant
Yes Mam, without fail. I thank him daily and all day long. I thank Him, I pray for others believing it is so & only when I can do it belieivng it to be true. I pray for those with ill will against me and those those with less than I have, bringing me back to being grateful while asking to be in a position to help those whom I can help. I am alive, I am upright, I have a sense of humor & most my senses, a roof over my head, beautiful clothes, food in my belly & cupboards, I have a car for as long as I have it, I have a family that loves me, Kids out there that adore & love me, friends that have stood by me.

please forgive, if I sounded ungrateful or that of someone that doesn't appreciate all that God has done for me. I have been struggling Sister Servant for what might be a milisecond to God but feeling like Eternity to me. I miss my children and I don't know if I'll ever be allowed to see them again. Its not looking so good from where I stand... My thyroid keeps dropping & I'm damn grateful & blessed not to be dead or comatose but the numbers are getting scary and hormones are controlled by the thyroid gland and most days I have to force myself to do anything much the same as a young child might scrape a dead animal off the ground and think its going to puff back up and walk off.

Not only am I thankful to God and remember to thank Him but I also make it a point to thank my family for their help & their love, I thank my friends often for sticking by me during these trying times.

but in all my intellect, sinful as it may be, I question God... I question where He came from? I question if He's real or if we need Him to be real? Is He a punishing God or a loving forgiving , no pennance for going against His will kind of God? Everyone seems to have a different opinion on this. If He is a punishing God how long can I expect to be punished when I've done all that I could to repent & apologize and to make right? Is He ever sorry He went with that whole idea of Free Will? Does He ever question His own choices? If I'm not being punished than why am I struggling all the time when I have so much to offer the world to make it a better place? If He made us for suffering and to renounce this world, why are we even here? Is Heaven & Hell right here on Earth or do we have to look forward to Dante's dream of hell? Am I , are we all to worry over the sins we have committed belieiving that we are never fully forgiven? If Jesus died for are sins why is there a Hell?

There are more questions than answers. And if He could answer just ONE CLEAR AS Day with no mincing of meaning or hidden in parables question for me, it would be Why did you give me all this talent and no equally talented people in what they do to get all this greatness out. Its Your greatness, why hide it in depression and financial hardship?

I can't help that I have these questions. I wish to God I didn't. I am tormented by the things I have heard the things I have read, things I have seen and the things I don't know. The things that might be true, the things that aren't but someone thought they were. As Mark Twain said Its not the things you don't know that hurt you, its the things you do that arent so. What's real & whats not? Does anyone know? How can we? When will we? Is what's real & true for you real and true for others? Why are there so many religions if there's only One God & one way to Heaven? What gets you in and what keeps us out?

And when I thank God who am I really thanking? Is He listening? If I ask in Jesus name for what I need and it is to be given then why am I & so may other people on sites like this stressed out and reaching?

I am thankful there are sites like this. Cause I have expressed myself like this on FB at great cost, so I am very grateful to have found this site. But I for one am tired of struggling, I am tired of suffereing from depression. If there is a God and He made me in His image and likeness, does He too suffer from depression & poverty?

For these things are as much a part of me as my talents & gifts. More so I would say since I can't seem to do anything real & substantial with any of the gifts He bestowed upon me cause I'm either depressed, sick, or my money well is drier than deadwood. i would like to not question God or His existance. I would like to believe without fail & I don't even thinnk that its that I don't believe in God as I don;t understand why I'm going to this this again when He knows I'm no good at sublty.
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In my experience, God does not get bent out of shape because we question him. God is love. More love than we can possibly imagine. Plus, he can handle your despair and your issues since you were not there when He created the universe. He is not going to take you away from planet earth until He is ready.

Try thanking Him everyday for as many things as you can think of and see what happens. He has already heard all of your pleas and knows about everything that is wrong

Have you told him all those things for which you feel thankful? Could be that He wants to hear about those too. Make a list for yourself and then begin to thank God. We have to let God know that we trust Him irregardless...

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Poppyday13   in reply to Much Love
I have managed to send some more things to you , but its so slow that I will stop now and look again tomorrow.
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Poppyday13   in reply to Poppyday13
If you click on menu , then select one to one , you will find some messages from me . I need to reboot to send you more. As you are coping with so much , I am sending you everything that I can find as you can make a note of it for a later time.
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Poppyday13   in reply to Much Love
Thank you .
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Much Love   in reply to Poppyday13
yes... about 30 miles from where I'm at
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Poppyday13   in reply to Much Love
Is that near Riverside please ? I have a lot of info for Riverside
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Much Love   in reply to Poppyday13
Thank you, Poppyday13! Off to make supper.
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